Sunday, January 22, 2012

Decisions...

Hi,
Making a decision sometimes can be tough, at least for me. I am so indecisive sometimes, but when I look at all the options I have in front of me, I get confused and I don't know what to decide. One, thing though I will look at all options before me, and I will carefully make a decision, after countless hours of talking to people and writing out pros and con lists, trying to predict where each option will take me. (I even try to see if there life could throw an unexpected surprise at me). Once I finally make a decision I stick to it, I commit fully to it, I don't turn back I move forward with the confidence it is correct. 
I don't know why I am writing a whole post on decisions, I don't know, but looks like it was a decision I made somewhere to do and so here I am writing about the word decisions. 
Decisions in the Webster dictionary is: "conclusion or resolution reached after consideration, the action or process of deciding something or of resolving a question"  I don't know why I put the definition of the word decisions except for the fact I have always wanted to.  
I know life is full of decisions do you continue to do what you have always wanted to do, or do you change things and start to see the world the way someone else might, trying to see the world through someone else's eyes, through someone else's point of view, no matter how different it might seem to you. I know several people that won't do that because they have a fear that it will change what they believe. I say, if we all tried to see through others eyes this world would be one very different place to live in. 
 Today I found a quote that I want to share with all of you. 
The decision to judge someone else, takes away the time you could be getting over your differences and loving them. I have found in my own life that when I seem to place a hard judgement on someone, it is like Karma catches up and I find myself eating my own words. I have learned better to let people be who they are and love them no matter what they are doing. As one of my really good friends, once said, "In order to be a true friend, when your friend tells you something that they are doing in their own life that doesn't hurt anyone, just continue to be their friend and to be there for them. No matter what! Cause that is what a true friend would do."

As always thanks for reading!

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