30 Things I Have Learned in the Last 30 Years!

Hi all,
So my new adventure has started and who knows where I will end up. Does anyone ever know where they will end up? I am guessing not, it seems we all have ideas of where we would love to end up being or doing and for a few they actually get what they want. For me life has proven to take me all over the board and I am loving the adventure.
So my birthday is coming up and it is a big one. I am turning the dreaded 30! I can not believe it I will be 30. Yikes.
As this birthday has been approaching it has been a rough one for me. cause the ideals I have in my head of where I wanted and saw for myself haven't happened yet and I don't know if they will ever happen. There are a few life lessons I have learned and I would like to shed some of my wisdom with you.
-Life is.....
1-learning to forgive those who have done you wrong. Forgiving others sets you free!
2-Learning to trust in the Lord, his plan for your life is perfect, though at times life may get you down and is rough, just remember it is experience that you needed.
3-Loving others is okay, even when they break your heart.
4-Family is important, cherish your family whoever that maybe, a grandparent, a mom, a sibling, a niece or nephew, your own kids.
5-Be thankful for those who raised you and who were good influences in your life.
6-Be honest with yourself
7-Don't become so obsessed with how you look or how you dress, life gets so stuffy when you do that!
8-Find reasons to laugh each day
9-Look for the miracle each day.
10- It is okay to be happy when you are hurting!
11-Finding solitude and peace in a cruel mean world
12-Being happy when others around you are being mean
13-Learning to love who you are is the most important thing, You are you, a unique individual and have a talent to share, so share it!
14-Learning guys may be mean to you, but the right one will treat you right. I have yet to find my other half, my lid to my pot, my one and only. I have dated quite a few guys, and I will say I just haven't met the right one yet.
15-Learning to trust your instinct. Sometimes you do know what is best for yourself.
16- You only live once, so make the best of it!
17-Life is meant to be lived, so live it
18- Life happens to every single soul and we all have our own personal battles we suffer.
19-Gain wisdom and insight from your grandparents and the older population, they sometimes see life in a better way then what we see it as. Besides they know how it was to date without texting and telephones.
20-Dating advice can be good, but mostly it is a friend thinking he or she knows your heart and is trying to fix a problem they may know just the surface of. So when it comes to it, listen to your friends then trust your heart knows best and be true to yourself!
21-Be a little kid at heart, grumpy, old, stiff people are no fun!
22-Live your dreams! Don't wait for life to happen go out there and make it happen
23-Be positive-to many negative people running around
24-Learning a new langue gives you a new perspective on your own culture.
25- The way you were raised wasn't the best or the correct way, but forgive your parents they did the best they knew how to do!
26-Learn to stand on your own to feet, so when life's tornadoes happen and they will, you will be able to withstand them, a whole lot better! Learn to ask for help when help is needed.
27-Do things that pull you from your comfort zone. Discover what it is you truly are good at and try new things, make new friends.
28-See your own faults and accept them and be willing to improve and correct them.
29-Have friends from all walks, cultures of life. This planet is full of people and the more you stretch yourself to know, the more full your life is.
30-You were born and you spent the first few years learning how to walk and talk. You then figure that all out just as puberty hits and your brain goes wacky and you are a teenager. Just as you get on top of all of those emotions, you are now legal age of 21 and so you get to have fun. Just as you learn how to party correctly you turn 30! and that is where I am at, turning 30. I am hoping as life continues for me I will be able to complete my observation with all of this.
I want to thank all of my readers out there! Thanks for putting up with grammar mistakes and sometimes incorrect spelling with words.
I need to be getting into bed as I have a very full day tomorrow.

Thanks for reading!